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Monday, January 30, 2006 @ 10:39 AM One will nvr know that he or she is lucky until the person met someone that is less fortunate than he or she... We are always complaining bout everything... how sucky and unfair life is... y she has this n i dun? y cant i be her? y m i not rich? y is my dad so stingy? but... when u see other people who r really suffering, then only we know how grateful we all shud be n b thankful for wut we have today. i met this gal at my working place. she's 20 this year but she has gone thru a lot than any other ordianary 20 yr old gal. she has a dad. everyone does. but her dad is not like any other normal man. her dad is wut we call a 'hak se wui dao lao (in canto)', n her own dad tried to kill her once. she has no idea who her mom was. her dad's a playboy... he's always bringin back diff gf, sleeping with diff women. now, her dad married a woman, who treats her n her brother like dirt, somehow reminds me of cinderella's evil stepmother... altho my fren is staying with her family, but she has to pay for her own room's rental. this is my first time hearing sum1 paying for her own room eventho she's staying with her family! so, since f1 i, she has to work part time to pay for her own expenses, food... everything!! how sad!! obviously, her life is jz like living in a hell. her own father despises her. he always insults her, saying that she's so stupid and theres no point of her studying n insisted that she stop schooling. she once had a bf, a few years back i think. they were tgt for 2 yrs but finally they had to be separated bcoz her dad strongly objected. her dad threaten to kill the boy if they stay tgt. very unbelievable rite... i coudnt belif my own ears when i first heard it. she has nvr told her bf why she wanted the separation, n bcoz of that, he hated her so so much. but because of all of this, she has become a very strong person. A person that is not afraid to fight for the right n defend for the weak, a person that is not afraid of hardship, a person who nvr cries... i admire her, a lot... i can nvr imagine a person can be so tough like her, well mayb thatz becoz im weak, unlike her. she really taught me alot, n i m really thankful that she's willing to share wut she has gone thru with me. i nvr actually tot sumtin like this will happen to anyone around me. this feels jz like in the movies, a melodrama, not in reality... suddenly, i dun feel like complaining anymore. 'i wish i have more money to shop'.. has bcome not a big deal to me anymore... same with ' i wish i have much cooler parents' n 'i want the newly released mobile phone!' n 'i wish i have a later curfew' n ' i wish i hav more freedom'. Being happy is not to be perfect but to be grateful n tolerant. This is wut i have learnt. woah.. wut an emo post. Happy CNY peeps... 0 shouts. |